Tackling life one date at a time.
Read Part 1 here! The second he said Sydney I knew it was him, and without missing a beat, I started spewing as many words and questions as I could get in over the music and before I lost his attention. “Is your name Shaun? Are you a pilot? Did you date Aidon? I…
Ever since I started my new job, I don’t get to go out on weekends anymore. There isn’t anything wrong with that, but when your life becomes a routine of work and sleep it’s nice to get a chance to let loose and just dance. And there is no better place I like to dance…
Theres one thing my ex still has that keeps me tied to him, and it’s taken months for me to even get a part of it back. I was all ready to move to Australia. My heart had moved there months before I was scheduled to arrive, but I had everything in order. I was…
I wonder if I’m listed in a guide book somewhere as an attraction. Like, the most amazing place to visit but never stay. One of those exotic caves filled with glow worms or stalagmites. Amazing to see and be inside of, but never the place where you go “I want to live here.” I went…
This is my 26th year without a Valentine. I’m not trying to say that to be sad or dramatic or gather heaps of sympathy. It’s just a simple fact about me. In a weird way I’m kind of proud of it because when I finally do have a Valentine it will have totally been worth…
Today is the day I was meant to move to Australia. I actually forgot what day I had planned, but somehow with my luck, the airline company sent me a text letting me know my itinerary was ready. You might be asking why was it was unlucky my phone did an amazing job at keeping…
Feelings are fickle. You never know when they’re going to show up and you’re never quite certain when they’re going to leave. And then the question remains, do they really go away or do they linger for forever? I was at a going away party tonight for a friend who is moving to New York…
Last week Australia legalized gay marriage, and although I am super happy for my fellow brother and sisters to get married, the news came very bittersweet to me. When I was dating my Australian guy, I was advocating to every Australian I encountered in LA to make sure they were voting for it to…
Sometimes, the best way to get over someone bad for you is to simply tell them to fuck off. Let me set the stage for you. For those following my Aidon/Danny journey you know I left Australia to come home after Aidon told me he picked Danny. For those new to my blog welcome, and…
I’m sitting here writing this in the airport terminal 3 days before I was actually intended to leave. But my heart couldn’t take it anymore, and watching the man I love struggle between picking me and someone else just became unbearable. The breaking point came when Aidon, his friend Haley, and I were sitting hanging…
