It might sound crazy, but I like to look at my ex’s instagram to see if he is still following me. And up until yesterday, he was. My theories for why he stopped may be valid, or maybe he just felt like it was time to let go. I can’t really say, and I’m…
When I go into dates, especially first ones, I don’t expect much. I said it before and I will say it again, I’m good with dating just not with actual relationships. I try and be as casual as possible. I will ask the blunt questions, and I will speak my mind, so I never understood…
Yesterday I accompanied by best friend Kay as she crowned the new Miss San Diego County at a pageant. She won last year, and this year she had to give up her title. Pageants are a weird thing. One of the girls competing called it a sport and I thought that was laughable. I’m not…
Being in your twenties is fun. You get to make a lot of stupid mistakes as you navigate your way through life hoping that you don’t fuck up just bad enough to ruin your future. I mean that’s what this is all about right? Making mistakes and figuring out exactly what you want? Last night…
I’ve been told countless times that I should date older, and ironically, I generally really like older guys. Not much older, but someone 3-4 years older than me was always my type. My last two relationships, however, were with guys about a year or two younger than me. I didn’t think much of it, how…
I will never understand emotions. I mean, how can anyone? They’re constantly changing and constantly moving, so how can anyone settle on a consistency with love? I still think of Shay. There hasn’t been a day since we started dating that I haven’t thought about him. It’s been one month since my break up and…
So today I went on a hangout/date with this guy named Raul who has been trying to take me out for a few years. I’m not sure why I never pursued it, I mean he’s cute and very nice, but after tonight I can tell you we will never be anything more than friends. I…
When it comes to dating in today’s society, we have many choices of people to choose from. With dating apps like Tinder, it makes it easy for us to see all the people we could “potentially” be with. Ideally this sounds great! We have an abundance of people to choose from, but is too many choices…
It’s weird for me to think that in today’s society we live in a time where sex and hook ups come before any form of intimacy or emotional attachment. We’ve come to a point where the rare thing to give away is our hearts, when before, it used to be our bodies. Yes, it’s amazing…
I’m upset. I’m hurt by my breakup with Shay, and as much as I say I’m okay, I know a part of me is not. It hurts to have someone you love, or who you thought you loved, turn to you and say that they don’t love you anymore. It just makes me think what…
