Not Letting Go

People think “Get over him already” is good advice for a heartbreak, but let me just tell you, it’s not. It makes you feel like you’re doing something wrong because you can’t let go, or that your love was meaningless. It tries to take something that was once so big and make it small and…

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Cruising

I’ve never cruised for guys before. I remember in Australia my friend Jacqui was giving me a tour of Sydney and she drove me by a park to tell me that was the place to be at nighttime for some cruising. I laughed her off and brushed it aside because cruising is NOT my thing,…

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Installments

Theres one thing my ex still has that keeps me tied to him, and it’s taken months for me to even get a part of it back. I was all ready to move to Australia. My heart had moved there months before I was scheduled to arrive, but I had everything in order. I was…

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Valentine’s Day Magic

This is my 26th year without a Valentine. I’m not trying to say that to be sad or dramatic or gather heaps of sympathy. It’s just a simple fact about me. In a weird way I’m kind of proud of it because when I finally do have a Valentine it will have totally been worth…

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What My Pride Can’t Say

Aidon, I’ve spent so much time just thinking and reflecting, but somehow never forgetting. I can’t seem to forget anything about this whole experience. I’m not sure I want to if I’m being totally honest. When someone shakes your world and changes both your heart and your mind, how can you just forget about them?…

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Sparks Again

Tonight I went on a date. Shocking, I know. A blog about dating and I start this post with, “I went on a date,” like it’s some absurd thing. But if you’ve been following along you will know that this is actually huge since that pesky think called a break up that I just went…

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To Move or Not To Move…

Today is the day I was meant to move to Australia. I actually forgot what day I had planned, but somehow with my luck, the airline company sent me a text letting me know my itinerary was ready. You might be asking why was it was unlucky my phone did an amazing job at keeping…

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Friendly Confession

Feelings are fickle. You never know when they’re going to show up and you’re never quite certain when they’re going to leave. And then the question remains, do they really go away or do they linger for forever? I was at a going away party tonight for a friend who is moving to New York…

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